WALKING YOUR PATH ON YOUR OWN

WALKING YOUR PATH ON YOUR OWN

I ONCE SOUGHT COUNSELING FROM A
MEDICINE MAN REGARDING PROBLEMS IN MY MARRIAGE AND HE HAD SOME GOOD
ADVICE TO SHARE WITH ME I HAD TOLD HIM ALL I WANTED WAS FOR MY HUSBAND
AND I TO WALK OUR NATIVE PATH TOGETHER HAND IN HAND TO ALWAYS BE THERE
TO SUPPORT ONE ANOTHER...HIS ADVICE TO ME WAS THIS...
"
You can not walk your path with anyone! You must walk YOUR path alone,
In all relationships each person must choose and walk their path by
themselves because we all walk at different paces. It's impossible for
two or more people to continue walking down the same path in life,
glued to each other's side. It just can't happen! Eventually one of you
is going to advance, or wish to advance and move on to other things,
thereby leaving the other one behind, its only natural. You must each
walk separate paths and go at your own pace. One day you will discover
that one of you have outgrown or surpassed the other, as one will
choose to walk at a slower pace, and the other will excel, You can
share what you learned with each other, and you can live in the same
dwelling, but each must walk by themselves, and each must respect the
other and their chosen path"

This is a hard lesson for some people to learn, especially, anyone who
maybe co-dependent, and a die-hard romantic! But, Trust Me, if you
don't agree with this medicine-man's teaching here, You will find out
the hard-way, that what he said is absolutely true....WITH LOVE TO ALL..

P.S. THIS IS NOT TO ADVOCATE DIVORCE ONE MUST REMEMBER ALTHOUGH SOME ARE MARRIED AND HAVE BECOME ONE WE ARE STILL INDIVIDUALS ON AN INDIVIDUAL JOURNEY WE EACH HAVE OUR PART TO PLAY MARRIED OR NOT.....SCORPIO53